Finally gave up on Boxee as it just wasn't evolving. I am partial to XBMC, but the queue shared across devices is why I had followed the path I'd taken.
But now I'm in love.
Google TV + a house full of Androids + Plex for Android and TV
I start watching a show on my TV. I continue watching on my tablet. I'll finish up going for a walk on my phone. The only downside to this setup is that I have to keep a Windows machine in house to serve as media manager. But absolutely adoring it. There are places the app could use improvement. And GoogleTV is a platform that itself is a little rocky.
On the further upside, I can play Star Wars : Old Republic on the new media machine on the TV (in picture to picture if I want).